What I have realised in my journey with running my own businesses, is that money has an actual intelligence that wants for me whatever is going to help me to lead with soul. It’s as though money is a Goddess or ally, supporting me whenever I need her. She ensures that I can actualise my visions, live my passion and bring to the world what it is that my soul is here to bring.
I feel like she has a shared intention with me – that I fulfil my soul’s calling and do so with joy and adventure.
I love her and she loves me right back! She loves me and I love her right back!
We do not doubt each other. We trust and love each other.
It may sound strange but trust me, the more that you rewire any limiting beliefs you have around money, especially at a cellular level, the more intimate you will become with the energy of money until you are in a harmonious relationship with her.
Like anything, to really make the shifts that we need to make, it is not enough to change our mind, we have to change things at a cellular level.
The first step is to go beneath the mind stress about money and feel what may be lurking in the unconscious. Money, like relationships, is a great teacher. It is a catalyst for deep lessons, fears, challenges, stories from your past, and hopes for your future. It is a flow of energy and can act as a mirror for how energy is flowing in your life. Does your energy flow freely or are you in a state of contraction? If your energy is flowing freely, then you are allowing whatever is alive inside of you to be expressed and released. If your energy is contracted on the other hand, you are suppressing life force energy; suppressing your emotional body and sexual body. The more you can let your emotions and your sexual energy to flow freely, the more that all energy will flow freely – including the energy of money.
Having a healthy relationship with money doesn’t come from having more of it; it comes from the healing power of deeply feeling the fears, desires, angst, grief, anger and anything else that’s beneath your money story.
When you have the courage to go on this inward journey, the noise of money stress quietens and you’re able to connect deeper to the flow of energy within you. You’re able to unblock blocked energy. You are able to connect to where you are “holding on” deep inside of you and let your emotions and sexuality out of the cage. How well energy flows outside of you is always a reflection of the flow of energy inside of you. Start flowing in your own being and in your own life and money will start flowing with much more grace. Let go!
Beliefs Around Money
Most of us have money concerns of one kind or another. We are either striving to make more (no matter how much we have) or to make do with less. To have a healthy belief system around money, we must honour our worthiness to receive money and to receive that which money can bring into our lives. In our society, many people have been conditioned to believe that they are not worthy of wealth; that it is selfish to want to attract things into our lives, that we shouldn’t want things and should just be satisfied with what we have. Whilst there is an element of truth to this, as we don’t want to become overly preoccupied with what we are wanting in the future, it is also true that we deserve all that life has to offer – including the things that cost money! We are all worthy of an abundant life. Furthermore, we deserve those things that we’d really love to have in our lives, that would make our lives even more comfortable, exciting and adventurous.
Feeling unworthy of the life you would truly love to live puts a large obstacle in the flow of your life force energy, and therefore your flow of wealth. The universal life flow – also referred to as God, The Divine, Spirit, Universal Energy Force, Consciousness, Gaia etc. – is everywhere and in all things, including money. There is no place that it is not. What we must do is not see ourselves or anything else as separate. Imagine a great big boulder (your feeling of unworthiness or judgement on desiring money as ‘bad’) in front of a running stream (life force flow). The boulder won’t stop the flow of life force, as it will just go around your unworthiness and flow someplace else. That’s exactly what happens when you decide you would like to create wealth, but simultaneously believe that you’re not worthy, good enough, or deserving of it, or that you shouldn’t want money as it’s not virtuous to desire wealth. Life force energy will not flow to areas that you do not feel deserving of, and instead will flow to other areas that you do feel worthy of. So, our task is to rewire any conditioning which says we are unworthy.
Changing Your Relationship With Money
The first step in rewiring our unworthiness around money is to realise that we are the source from which we came. We are not separate to it, nor is the flow of wealth. We believe we can’t attract to ourselves what we want because we think we are separate from source. But if we see ourselves as connected to the universe, then we can attract anything we want into our lives.
The second step is realising that you are worthy of wealth and worthy of receiving the gifts that wealth would bring into your life.
The third step is releasing common limiting beliefs about money (a lot of these may be unconscious – check them out and notice which ones you tend to hold in your awareness):
- Money is the root of all evil
- Money doesn’t grow on trees
- I’m no good with money
- Spiritual people are always broke
- Money is scarce, and I must be careful with it
- Who am I to be great, successful and rich
- Who am I to live the life of my dreams
- Only celebrities and famous people are rich
- It’s greedy to want more money
- It’s too hard to earn lots of money
- I don’t deserve it
- I’m not worthy
- I’m not good enough
- I’m not smart enough
- I can make do with what I have
Most people don’t challenge or question their long-held negative beliefs. Sometimes they don’t even know they’re thinking them because they have become so second nature to their thought process. They just accept them as irrefutable and undeniable facts. But most of your beliefs are simply untrue and have no basis. In fact, often they are nothing but a bunch of crap that you have been conditioned to believe by your parents, teachers, TV, internet and the media. A good way to destroy any negative beliefs you might have is to simply examine and question them yourself: “Is this belief true? Where did it come from?” and think seriously about the consequences of having those beliefs.
Next time you have a negative belief about money (or anything for that matter), ask yourself these questions:
- What are the consequences of believing this and continuing to think this way?
- What will be the impact on my career, life and relationships if I continue to believe this?
- What has this belief already cost me mentally, emotionally, physically, financially and spiritually?
And importantly, next time you get rejected or don’t get the results you want or the wealth you desired, instead of telling yourself you can’t do it, you’re not good enough, or what can be a popular spiritual cop-out “It just wasn’t meant to be”. Learn from the experience and then tell yourself: “I can do this, persistence prevails when all else fails, I believe that the universe/God/Spirit has my back.” You can also remind yourself of the following facts:
- Colonel Sanders KFC recipe got rejected 1, 009 times
- Walt Disney was fired from his newspaper job for “lacking imagination” and “having no original ideas” and was rejected over 300 times for financing Disney World
- Oprah Winfrey was fired from her first anchor show and was told she was “not fit for television”
- Thomas Edison failed to produce the light bulb more than 10, 000 times before he got it right
“Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning we give it.”
~ Tony Robbins
Therefore, an experience that brings one person down and makes them give up, can motivate someone else to take the challenge, try even harder and eventually succeed. The same event can mean many different things to many different people depending on what their beliefs are. So, become the creator of your own destiny, which is no longer defined by societal and family conditioning and BELIEVE IN YOURSELF AND WHAT YOU HAVE TO OFFER TO THE WORLD.
Affirmations For Rewiring New Beliefs Around Money:
- I am attracting the money into my life that I need to create my heaven on earth
- I am a magnet for money
- Money comes to me easily and effortlessly
- It’s okay to enjoy money
- Money comes to me in expected and unexpected ways
- I move from scarcity thinking to abundance thinking
- I am worthy of making more money
- I am open and receptive to all the wealth life offers me
- I embrace new avenues of income
- I welcome an unlimited source of income and wealth into my life
- I refuse to be penny wise and pound foolish
- I understand that sometimes I need to spend money in order to make money
During our Soul Leadership retreat, you’ll experience cellular-shifting practices to help you shift from a relationship with money that’s based on fear, scarcity, greed, or lack to one that is based in real love and trust.
Chantelle and Aaron will share practical methods to help you begin clearing your emotional blocks and beliefs around money so that she becomes a Goddess who you are in a harmonious relationship with.
You will discover how to clear unhealthy imprints in your energy field and emotional body, enabling you to lift your frequency and receive the loving energy of money.
Abundance is ready for you to receive. Are you ready for her? For more info and to book email firstname.lastname@example.org.